An update as of May 6th 2008:
In the previous post I explained as to why I didnt visit AAOF in a week or so. Ive been told by a member today that "members in AAOF would like to see me come back and post there again and apparently they posted that too in the forum and got the answer from admins ' All she has to do is to PM us to get her posting permissions back'."
Emm....Are you even serious? I must hear wrong. For what merry reason should I PM the admins who abuse their privileges and ASK THEM to pls give me my posting permissions( and not only since I dont have permission to edit my profile, signature either) back, permissons that THEY themsleves took away from me for NO REASON AT ALL and now I 'am supposed to beg them to give them back to me' ????????????????????? Pardon me ?
Think kindergarten. 'If we want to play, we will play, if we want to give a member his posting permissons, we kindly will give him, if we feel like banning a member for no reason we gonna ban him'. I dont play such games. And Im not a toy to be plaid any games like that either. UGH. Just to satisfy such 'admins' desire to show off their power this or that way and have final say.Ohhh puh-lease...
There is NO EVEN A SINGLE REASON for ME to even SEND them anything or ask them about anything - I did NOT start anything, its THEM, who started this whole absurd and disrespectful thing and its THEM who just should give me all my 'member permissions' back ASAP. ASAP. Without even daring to ask me to do anything. Just switch them on and thats all.
Of course, ideally, apologizing for all that absurd circus and inapropriate behaviour that they prove each time in their PMs to me, comments here and their actions not only towards me and my posts but towards other members who try to speak up as well.
Its 'amazing' how badly they need to satisfy their need to show how much power they have in the forum. Because they did all they could to get my personal reaction on their absurdness but they failed. This 'terrible person' didnt even PM them, didnt talk to them, just in her blog.No, we want to break her 'Im not gonna PM them as I dont even have to since in their PMs they show pretty darn good that such PMs dont even have to be asnwered to', we want to make her play our coward games too.Whatever, dudes.
If the apology I 'HEARD they made in the forum' was sincere they would have given me ALL my permissions back with that. Which is NOT the case for now.
And banning me from posting, editing my signature, adding comments in my profile BUT just leaving me PM to 'make me contact them and come say oh pls, give me my permissions back' - you can take the PM option too from me, if you want, because if you want for me to come to you on my knees for nothing youll have to wait a damn long time.
I think THIS alone says clear enough what kind of admins manage this forum.
Im not gonna visit/post there until ALL my permissions are back.
Oh yes and I talk only here in my blog. Without being stalked, getting orders whatI 'should do', treated rudely and disrepectful and so on. Just so you remember.
Regards,
xx.
ps. Just think yourself, people, if these two admins would have had a 'clear conscience' and would have been 'innocent' then they wouldnt have been avoiding public discussion of all that in forum. But they do as we see.Because it will put them in 'not so good light' in front of all members.So what they do? They 'copy my original thread and had to create a duscussion of 'forum issues'thread' BUT ban me from posting there. Ok, so I take it, they gonna discuss it with themselves eh?...Its like okay, here we are giving you a chance to speak but wait, we shut up your mouth first. Ummm...what gives? 'Very clever. Very logical. Very intelligent'.
I think 'this case' is almost hopeless and these two admins are COMPLETELY unable to do admins job. Thats all.
ps1. I had an ex-member of AAOF contact me today in other forum where that member shared the same 'experience' he had with these exact admins too and was banned for no reason by them, was treated rudely and disrespectfully and how it all was 'pooof', deleted by admins and 'they were pure and innocent again' for all who 'doesnt know' the real state of things. So here is an extract from that message and more on what other members said to me after reading my blog - names not shown to keep the privacy:
6 comments:
i saw that you did accept the comment. however, it was submitted days ago and i haven't seen it until today. my mistake.
you're turning everything around and it's frustrating because half of the stuff that has happened wasn't even intended to go that way, but it's being turned into it.
good morning,
i am sincerely interested why my two post were removed at http://www.alessandraambrosio.com/forum/? May be You are allowed to speak free here at this place. May be we dont know YOUR secret invisible instructions that make you act so strange as an admin at Alessandras forum. Lets use THIS place as a kind of forum for mature discussion. Am I allowed to quote myself, you only have to reverse "here" and "there":
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I read everything here and there yesterday, wrote my opinion here in one short sentence. Today i saw that my post from yesterday disappeared. Others told me they saw my post but only for a few minutes.
If admins hinder faithful members like beckstar and many others who contribute to make Alessandras forum a nice place to visit, from continuing their remarkable work here, its not the fault of beckstar and way out of her influence to change or solve the situation.
I leave it to the wise reader to draw conclusions by themselves who acts mature and who communicates appropriate.
Have a nice and sunny day
rgds
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I am not going to read what seems like an endless blog post as to why you were banned in the first place. This blog post made just about no sense to me. Perhaps you could summarize what you were banned for. I was signed up before May, but I didn't see any drama going down on the boards. Maybe just a small summary of why you were banned for people who don't want to read a ridiculously long analysis of why you think it was unfair.
Kind regards
greetings!
first I want to apologize myself for not telling my real name here. After realizing how admins in the www.alessandraambrosio.com/forum plague members, post-jack them for no reason at all, I fear these admins could also remove my posting permissions at AAOF and in other forums I visit on a regular basis.
I also got hit by post-removal-trauma from these admins, for even asking simple, polite questions. I venerate your courage to speak up and give everyone the right to post their comments, no matter how dumb or bright.
Forum admins should have specialized skills and go ahead well-behaved. There are many kids out there in those forums and it would be sad if admins labelled as unsuitable blister them.
The silent majority of forum users may be even didn't get the chance to realize what happens (post get removed fast, member rights get canceled arbitrary). Anyway I think neither the members nor the models deserves admins of that ilk.
I think it will be successful, to talk to those people who run these sites and to their owners.
I wish You and Alessandra and all other members of this forum all the best and hope she will find mature admins better soon than sorry.
greetings!
your permissions were taken away because you chose not to act. you chose to just sit there and let the situation become what it has. instead of trying to make it better, you didn't care. if you really want to be on ale's forum so bad, then why don't you just contact avada or lullaby and just get this whole situation over with? i'm pretty sure that the admins are not the ones on a power trip. thats you.
if the apology wasn't sincere, then why was it as long as it was? why would she go into such detail with it? and your not such an angel yourself. i've seen your posts that were deleted. its incredible to think that people can actually think that your one of the nicest people on the board.
your blowing the whole situation way out of proportion. basically what i'm trying to say is LET IT GO! grudges do nothing but hold you down.
hate me all you want for writing this, but seriously. all this whining and bitching about something that has been APOLOGIZED for? its wearing me, the other mods and admins, and the members out.
imho the situation will stay the same as long as these administrators can click the delete button and get rid of everything that makes them look "bad".in my opinion they should just look for another kind of job because it doesn"t look like they can ever change their attitudes... it"s a shame that alessandra and marisa don"t know about it . imho you do a lot for the forum even not being able to post there. good luck is all i can say.
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